We all go into relationships expecting our partners to be normal-rational humans that treat dogs like animals and not god-beings. Its good that there are normal dog owners like you. A muzzle doesnt help either, because my wife hates the stigma attached to dogs with a muzzle on, and she wants people to know what a loveable creature that piece of s*** is. Which came first the dog humping or the social isolation? My first dog was older when they met and therefore very sedate, the second dog was not into people, other dogs, she was very reserved, so having a puppy around freaks him out. Dog owners know this. I have no bond with this dog maybe because I feel in tired of cleaning every inch of the house before and after work and it still smell stinky from the Min Pin using our house as the bathroom. he just did it to be dominant and its my husbands fault for refusing to accept the fact his dog needed more training than he was willing to givehe said i told u i would have to get rid of my dog because of you..like i purposely sacrificed my baby to his dog just because i hate the dog.ughhhlike its my fault his dog has to go because it was my child that was the victim.no i just wanted my kids to be safe and the dog to be in a better suited home his whole family said he never should have allowed the dog around kids at all and im right and he just dont wana admit he was wrongnow we have to take the dog to a rehabilitation shelter and my husband is upset to have to end his relationship with his beloved hell hound this way..and i can only say i told u so..he finally did confess to me tonight that he was afraid the whole time that this would happen and hes sorry he endangered our kids by insisting the dog stay here and by not listening to me about training or re homing the doghe spent the entire day with our baby girl and feels terrible.as bad as i wanted to just put the dog down myself i dont have the heart i just hope this shelter can find someone that has no small kids and the ability to deal wth this kind of agression.i feel bad for the dog and my husbandbut i feel worse for my daughteri hope u can find some sane middle ground in your situation..i never did and my child suffered because husband had to put an animal above his human family. I actually use to really enjoy his dogs company, but ever since my fianc and I moved in together (this being our first time living together), I see things a little bit more clearly when it comes to the dog. If I say something to him about how he is acting Im the enemy. Im not gonna dig into that huge portion of the training. Your health is number 1! Would you be better to give him your ultimate sacrifice and find him a happy home to live the rest of his life? Im about fed up with this dog and ready to get rid of it but I know my boyfriend is not. Im a woman, and I agree with you.. I just dont understand not loving a dog, any dog. This dog is 13 years old. It started to get to the point of me doing most the dog duties. So furious! He is at home with her all day while I work. If there is an issue, necessary actions will be taken. He is asking me to consider changing my entire life. At this point, I feel like her dog dictates our relationship. i just feel that a lot of time goes to these animals and thats taking away time from our marriage. I dont care. My first dog was older when they met and therefore very sedate, the second dog. How ridiculous for a person to not like a certain dog. Each one was given boundaries and structure, taught manners in living with their humans, loved and spoiled with a lot of treats and toys. He sees the dogs as his babies and cant do any wrong! But we have suffered a lot of loss in the last few years so dealing with fleas and having the patience to teach a dog when and when not to bark is not something he is always up to do. So, your significant other has a dog, and youve told them that its either the dog or you. I feel I dont have any place except in one our bathroom in our home, my husband now wants the min pin to sleep in our bed. Shes a decently trained dog though, she knows to do her business outside, she listens after the third time you tell her and for the most part is well mannered. During that time I was cheated on. Please help!!! Wow, it is so comforting to know that I am not alone after reading everyones posts. We have recently purchase a new home that has a 3 car garage. Since then we have communicated about what it is that makes him upset1. I just begged for her to live and promised that even if she was permanently disabled , I would care for her kindly as long as she lived.For another 3-4 days she was still retarded. Anyone who knows labs knows that they have two coats and shed INCESSANTLY. Telling him that in six years when the dog is dead, and Im not there, what will you regret? When we met he never told me he was a pet lover. Its always been my choice to let that happen, as I was single at the time of getting him. You dont need to do anything, she knows from the beginning your passion for your dog. Life brings change and sometimes the animal does not fit in with that change. It takes a lot of time and it shows IMO how much I actually care for my girlfriend because I cant tell you how many men would just hit it and leAve because of an annoying pup. If I went next door and saw another woman and she gave me a good meal, I wouldnt suddenly be in love with her and tell my girlfriend its over. Pets are creatures of habit, and cannot be transferred from home to home like a toy just because someone doesnt want them around. Dogs dont belong in a human bed people! Taking care of an animal is a good way to gauge how well you work as a team and to find out what makes your partner tick. Having a fenced yard would really help. He thinks that the yelling is the way he needs to respond and that because it is the dog that causes it I should get on board. Absolutely everywhere. Again, fine. my wife and i just got into another argument due to her dogs! Might I suggest you talk with someone outside of your situation and get their opinion. I can completely relate! I walk the darn thing all week and would love my husband to want to come out with me at the weekend. Why would you do that? She is a pit bull, but very submissive. And he was totally inflexible by saying that he wouldnt give up sleeping with his precious Mesa for anything. He would stop talking to me just to pick her up because she always wants him attention specially when he talks, gets close or even awknowledge me. It jumps on dinner table begging for food and has scratched the couch to death( we had to get a new cover for the couch) i tried to accept it and invested my time in training it, it responded and stopped doing the bad things for a while but my husband messed with its brains by deliberately putting her on the couch/bed and giving it treats on the couch inspite of me pleading not to, that the cat has gone back to its despicable behaviour. any suggestions on what to do!?!? If you really want to control this situation, there are a few things you need to be aware of. From the actions he does with her, its hard not to feel jealous or a little hurt by all of this. So then I bought baby gates and pads to block off a big area and she could use the pads. It seems like the overwhelming majority of people who are adversely affected by dogs seem to like dogs but believes they should be treated like animals rather than four-legged humans. The only thing she would listen to at first was sit. If your husband/boyfriend needs to get rid of the dog by considering the damage to material items in the home, for example, carpet, you can come up with an alternative to the Floor coverings, especially when you are moving to a new house and husband refuse to take the dog to a new house right away. After she left I spoke with my friend who told me the comment and I as l was hurt and livid. It is unfair to make demands like this of someone else. I understand the love for animals, but people should also be realistic and its not like I move into a place that he already has with the dogs and kick them out. I dont not give a monkey to be honest. I am engaged and although I have known my fianc has never cared for inside dogs, he has always tolerated them even at their most annoying times. Their breath smells likelike rotting roadkill. He lets it up to the kids to brush and bathe them which they dont do very often. I have a labra-doodle and have always had an inside dog. Your bf will never be that person. With the new baby I am worried about when he starts crawling, well have to keep the dog kenneled all the time. When it does do something, its to look for f***ing food on the ground, that it will ingest and restarting the cycle of diarrhoea again. The dogs are not your children. Only made me better. The thing Ive learned is that there has to be some give with the take. I have a bone of contention with my SO over his wiener dog. I truly Im not fan of this dog and I want him out the bed. Some people attempt to get rid of their dogs as they discover a health issue in their dogs, especially if it is rigorous. So, puzzle toys are an excellent way to ease the boredom in dogs, especially in puppies. I live in FL.I see diffrent varieties of dogs over here. Its making me nuts and I am really starting to resent him and not want to be with him. He makes my life miserable every time he calls he stupid or stupid fn dog. I feel like this is the last straw, like my opinion doesnt matter. we moved in together after we got married and the cat came too. I would like to contribute with my personal story about mistakes that we make when we enter a relationship being a pet lover, but also give a word of compassion to those who find themselves in the same situation that I do. I dont want to ruin our relationship over this. She made arrangements for her mother to take the dog when she came out to visit last week. So happy she was understanding and accommodating. If the dog is a grown one, the house training needs to be done again! I informed him several times that the dog smells. And one of the dogs, also keeps drinking from the toilet and chews up garbage from the trash can in the bathroom, even underwear! 6 Steps To Transition Puppy From Litter Box To Outside, Why Do Puppies Step In Their Own Poop? He says he cant get rid of the dog bc it will upset his 22 year old adult son (who doesnt love with us & wont take care of the dog either)! Hes totallly talking me for granted since I stay home. Constantly needing constantly dumping her energy all over my home. I uprooted to move all the way to a small middle eastern country leaving all that i cherished ( career,family,friends) behind and was shocked to find my husbands cat coming along. I love my dogbut she is a dog. The cat now will not bury her poop and if he doesnt clean it up right away her next poop is on the floor, anywhere in the house. Tell him, "We're just going to look," and see if he falls in love. Pip I agree when the dogs gone what then? I am really glad that I read through these comments. Dog ownership is a LOT of work! Her reply was as expected, to the tune of, if my dog has to go, I go. My fianc and I have been together for 13 years. I cant help that, he was like that when he came to me from his last family. Shes also not fixed so when she has her menstrual cycle she will bleed spots all over the home. Unfortunately the most annoying dog is also her favourite. People make that mistake. My biggest problem is the way she treats the animal. Reading through these comments, Im so glad Im not alone! Breaking up was a very wise decision on your part. Dogs are great for narcissists; they put their human on a pedestal, revolve their world around the human, and never object. Yet its driven him homeless over and over few will rent out their properties to dog owners. Am I crazy for feeling this way? Shes kind of mean to him tells me things like your dog is gross when hes licking himself between the legs (well, thats what dogs do). Bubby, yes it appears that many people are experiencing the same thing as you are. Sam Basso If youre already in an established relationship, its time to begin communicating clearly and openly. They are well behaved most of the time but like anything they love attension and cuddles and he just cannot bare them. Im sure this isnt the answer you want to hear but its the answer you already know: its time to move on. She told me how she had one of her drunken , lonely nights with her favorite bottle of wine after going through a break up and was browsing the web for dogs she could get from a shelter. Sorry, but theres no way I would ever let a dog come between me and my wife, especially one that weighs all of 5 lbs on a good day. Thats over and Id be out of there in a heartbeat! I bought one of those First Alert Bark Genies (sits on a table) and it seems to be workingyou might try that to get some peace. The anger towards him stems from the fact that I picked up the dog at the pound without consulting him. As for our brains vs a dogs, oh my goodness. Are you in CA? They must be let outside, fed, played with and walked. More power to you girl! 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